Dating a drunk
Has your girlfriend ever confessed to kissing another guy and feeling guilty about it, all because she was drunk and out of her mind?
Some guys have been the unlucky boyfriends who had to hear the news.
And some other guys were the lucky stealers who were able to stick their tongue into another man’s girlfriend’s mouth. Drunk girlfriends who kiss other guys Booze makes a lot of crazy things happen to people. And it can also make a horny girlfriend feel, well, more horny.
Judging by the two sides of this kind of a story, many guys have been here at least once. Whether you’re in college or experiencing a quarter life crisis, there’s always a good chance of this cropping up, especially if your girl’s an independent woman who loves her own space, a.k.a. Really, what are the odds of her going out with friends, meeting a few guys, and kissing one or more guys all happening in one single night?
And especially on the same night that you don’t accompany her. You should, even if you’re nowhere near her panties.
Nice girlfriends with a little bad booze Seriously, what happens to a few girlfriends once they’ve had a bit to drink?
All of a sudden, she’s a whole new single chick stuck in a committed girl’s body. Well, it gives her the courage to speak the thoughts that are lurking in the deep recesses of her mind. Well, booze gives a girl a great excuse to test the waters too!
Does that mean your girlfriend actually kissed a guy even though she knew what she was doing? What with them being such creative geniuses and all!
*dramatic gasp* [Read: Date rape signs] Yes, in all probability, she knew exactly what she was doing. [Read: Five excuses to kiss a friend] If your girlfriend’s actually kissed another guy, it’s either after a long touchy feely conversation, or after a few days of having a crush on some guy. There’s too much love in the air to break a relationship up over a mistake. Okay, so we’re dealing with a repeat offender here. If all she does when she gets high is grabs the crotches of your friends or drags them to the dance floor to grind her ass on the front of their jeans, you’re in some serious relationship makeover zone.
Logically speaking, if she was extremely high after a few drinks, she may have kissed a guy she liked first which may have made her feel a lot hornier, which in turn leads to her being tossed around from one guy to another to exchange bodily fluids now and then. And that could have been avoided by your cute girlfriend if she really wanted to. So she kissed a guy even though she knew it was wrong, but why did she have to confess to you and make you feel worse? If your girlfriend walked up to you with her doe eyes and her sexy body and told you that she had sex last night with another guy, yes, only because she was drunk and didn’t know what she was doing, should you forgive her? It may have been a planned mistake or a spur of the moment thing. Well, some other guy did run his mouth and hands all over your girl, but you know what, everyone makes a mistake now and then. Forgive her and give the guy she slept with a black eye if you want to. Your girlfriend’s the kind of girl who wants a steady boyfriend and a string of flings too.
Well, she probably confessed because she’s guilty of succumbing to her sexual desires even though she’s in a happy relationship, or because she thought you’d find out anyways. And if your girlfriend really does regret the whole incident, it’s only because she loves you and feels bad for doing what she did. Or she thinks you’re an idiot who falls for her I-forget-when-I’m-drunk excuse all the time. ] Whatever the case may be, if you’re dealing with a girlfriend who changes into a hooker every time she drinks a few shots, you need to leave her and walk out of her life, especially if that’s not the lifestyle you choose to live.
Should you forgive a girlfriend on a kissing spree? But look, you would have done the same thing if you were in her place. ] A few drinks can make a guy forget his driving skills, can it not make him overlook the fact that he has a girlfriend? Otherwise, she would have just moved in with a group of guys and a few bottles of JD. Your girlfriend may be way too immature or may just be overenthusiastic to experience all the sexual freedom of the ‘70s all over again.
If you were in her place, stroking lady parts of a sexy girl and sipping cheap wine at the same time while talking about sex, there’s a very good chance you would have done the exact thing. Your girlfriend experienced the same sexual liberty and enlightenment at that drunken moment when she kissed another guy. Unless you’re into swinging and swapping, end the relationship with her even if she feigns memory loss the next morning.