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Responding to dating profiles

A plethora of online dating and matchmaking agencies have emerged with this new convenient way of looking for love.Unfortunately, standards of honesty tend to slip when using this faceless method of communication.Regrettably, men’s manners have regressed behind this shield of anonymity and women have reacted by raising barriers of caution during online dating.The men have then become craftier in their deception and women more wary.Nevertheless, deceptions do still occur and both sexes are guilty of this.Consequently, a new set of ‘rules’ have evolved, to protect women in particular, from nasty experiences and to make online dating more friendly, civilized and safe for them. If you are new to online dating the following will help you to participate with dignity and confidence. Save it for your boozing buddies This is not a game. It’s cruel A search for ‘online dating agencies’ produces thousands of online agencies. Others will accept your profile and allow you to view profiles of advertisers free of charge.If you are experienced in online dating you will recognise the need for establishing this code of online dating etiquette. You will be dealing with real people with real feelings Engage in cyber searching only if you are seriously searching for a friend or partner. It is only when you wish to contact a potential candidate that a subscription fee is required.

Check the Terms and Conditions and their Privacy Policy. Be honest in your profile from the start to the end. You will eventually be found out Make sure you fill in the Profile Form fully and truthfully or you will be frustrated with unsuitable candidates wasting your time and theirs Post recent photos to prevent the shock of being discovered to be a geriatric instead of an expected hunk or spunk Avoid sloppy spelling & sloppy grammar.You will come across as lazy or uneducated The response may be by e-mail or online chat If you respond by e-mail and it is ignored try no more than once more Remember at all times to treat each other with dignity and respect If you are going to respond to an ad - be sure that you match the required criteria before you respond – e.g., age range, description, religion, location, interests and so on Do not respond to an ad if you are not genuinely interested.Put your energy into responding to a good prospect If you have responded to an ad and the reply is a rejection, that’s life. You are one step closer to your love match If the response is from a person clearly outside your stated parameters, they are wasting your time.Ignore it Always reply to genuinely decent responses, even if the answer is ‘No’.Always be polite and kind, especially if the answer is ‘No’ Never be too busy to respond appropriately Reply as soon as possible. People are individuals, so, personalise your replies Aha, you have received a promising response or two and you are going to reply Start with a friendly greeting End with a friendly goodbye Use gentle humour if it is part of your personality Punctuate your statements with – (smile) (frown) (beaming) (thinking) or :-) Keep it brief, relevant, light, breezy and interesting Allow the communication to flow Do not get personal Do not trifle with anyone’s emotions Allow the friendship time to develop.

Do not be pushy Do not demand anything When ready, ask, do not push for a phone number or address.

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