Why men play dating games
When women start dating new men, it might be appropriate to say, “Gentlemen, start your engines!” After all, the excitement of being with a new girl is certainly bound to get a guy a little revved up.Unfortunately, however, the battle cry we too often seem to get from you ladies is, “Let the games begin!” It is normal to some extent to “feel out” your new partner or potential mate with some tests, trials and curveballs.
You made him prove that he had what it takes to stick around through rejection and ambivalence.
But he competed well against your other suitors and now you’re dating him.
If you keep up the sarcasm and non-supportive jabs, you are likely to make the man believe that he will never be good enough for you in your mind.
Remember that men do have feelings, and they need to feel secure in a relationship, just as you do.
Would you really want a man with no ego or self-esteem at all?
You might lose him or turn him into a wounded puppy that you just stop caring about.